In this story
- Before you go: planning at home
- Getting there: airports, stations and the first hour
- Where you sleep: choosing and securing accommodation
- Going out: nights, drinks and new people
- Getting around: rides, transit and walking
- The phone setup checklist
- Backups that save the day
- Start tonight with three steps
The quick version
- Register with your government's travel program and send your itinerary to at least one person before you leave.
- Set up emergency SOS, emergency contacts and location sharing at home, then test them once.
- Keep bags close, check every ride against the booking, and never let your drink out of sight.
- Save offline maps, the embassy number and a paper card of key contacts in case your phone dies.
The scariest moment for most first-time solo travelers rarely lasts long. It's the thirty seconds on a train platform when your bag is on the ground, your phone is in your hand, and you're wondering who knows where you are. That moment is much easier to handle when you've prepared for it.
Here's the short answer. Most solo trips by women are uneventful, and the habits that matter most are simple: make yourself a harder target, tell someone your route, set up your phone before you leave, and be picky about where you sleep and how you get around. The sections below follow the order you'll actually meet these decisions, from planning at home to the ride back to your room.
Before you go: planning at home
Start with the government. If you're a U.S. citizen, the free Smart Traveler Enrollment Program lets the nearest U.S. embassy send you safety alerts and reach you if something goes wrong. Many other countries run similar services, so check with your own foreign ministry if you're traveling on another passport.
Then read the destination's current advisory and local customs. Dress expectations, nightlife habits and transport norms vary a lot from one place to the next. One recent review from a woman who has been there will tell you more than a dozen generic listicles.
- Write a one-page itinerary with hotel addresses, phone numbers and flight times, and send it to two people back home.
- Photograph your passport, visa, insurance card and bank cards, front and back. Store the photos in a private cloud folder and email a copy to yourself.
- Agree on a daily check-in, such as a text every evening at a fixed time. If you miss it, your contact knows to call the hotel.
- Look up the nearest embassy or consulate and save its address and phone number somewhere offline.
Sort out your cash before you fly, too. Our guide on how to exchange money abroad without overpaying covers the options, and it's worth reading before you land with an empty wallet.
Getting there: airports, stations and the first hour
Your guard is lowest when you're tired and the layout is unfamiliar. Keep your bag strapped on or resting between your feet, and don't park a phone on the edge of a café table. Thieves count on distraction, and a busy arrivals hall is full of it.
Arrange your first ride in advance if you can. Use official taxi stands or a pre-booked car service rather than someone who approaches you inside the terminal. Match the driver's name and vehicle against your booking before you get in.
Use ATMs with a bit of judgment. Pick machines inside a bank branch or in a bright, busy spot, and skip any that sit alone in a quiet corridor. If the machine looks tampered with or the card slot wiggles, walk to another one.
Where you sleep: choosing and securing accommodation
Read recent reviews with a specific eye. Look for comments about staffed front desks at night, working locks, and how the staff handle late arrivals. Women-only dorms and well-reviewed women-focused hostels are popular with solo travelers, but a label alone doesn't guarantee good security.
Once you're inside, do a two-minute room check. Test the deadbolt, look through the peephole, and find both the stairs and the nearest exit. If the door feels flimsy, a portable door stopper or a small door alarm adds a useful second barrier.
- Ask for a room above street level, but not so high that the fire exit is out of reach.
- Use the in-room safe for passport copies, spare cash and the card you don't need daily.
- Don't say your room number out loud at the desk or on a phone call with someone you just met.
- Keep your valuables out of sight when housekeeping comes in, and keep the door locked even for a quick trip down the hall.
Going out: nights, drinks and new people
Plenty of solo travelers love a good evening out, and you can have one without giving up your edge. The habit that protects you most is simple: your drink stays in your hand or in your line of sight. If you look away and it comes back changed, leave it and order another.
Plan the way home before you leave the bar or restaurant. Save your hotel in offline maps, have a rideshare app ready, and decide on a backup route in case the place you're heading to has closed. If a new friend offers to walk you back, it's fine to say no and take a car.
You don't owe anyone your full itinerary. A vague answer is always allowed, so "my friends are meeting me nearby" is a perfectly good reply to a stranger who asks where you're staying. For more on the kinds of activities that call for extra care, the State Department's planning resources include tips for specific situations.
Getting around: rides, transit and walking
Rideshares are often the most comfortable option after dark, but they still need a quick check. Confirm the license plate and driver's name against the app, sit in the back seat, and share your trip with someone you trust before the car moves. Check which trip-sharing options your app offers, because they differ.
On foot, walk with a sense of purpose. Staring at a map on your screen marks you as a visitor, so step into a shop or café doorway to check directions. Memorize the first few turns before you set out, and keep your phone in a front pocket or a crossbody bag.
On public transport, choose a carriage with other passengers, especially late in the day, and stand near the doors so you can get off quickly. Android users can also use the Personal Safety app's Safety Check, which runs a timer for a late walk or a ride and shares your live location with your contacts if you don't respond when it ends. The Android Personal Safety app guide explains how it works.
The phone setup checklist
Your phone does most of the heavy lifting in an emergency, but only if it's configured before you need it. Set everything up at home, then test it once on a walk around your own neighborhood.
- Turn on Emergency SOS. On iPhone, open Settings, find Emergency SOS, and turn on a call option such as call with hold or five presses of the side button. On Android, open Settings, go to Safety and emergency, then Emergency SOS, since menu names vary by brand.
- Add two or three emergency contacts. Pick people who will answer at odd hours and who already know your itinerary.
- Share your live location with one trusted person. Use Find My on iPhone or location sharing in Google Maps on Android, and set the time window to cover your whole trip.
- Add medical details to your lock screen. List allergies and any medications you take so responders can see them without unlocking the phone. A doctor or pharmacist can help you decide what's worth listing.
- Download offline maps. Save the city, your hotel, the embassy and the airport so navigation still works with no signal.
- Get data working on arrival. An eSIM or local SIM lets you call for help and share your location. Android's help pages note that emergency calls can still go through without a SIM, but you won't be able to reach your contacts that way.
- Store key numbers in two places. Save the local emergency number, the embassy, your hotel, your card issuer's emergency line and a friend back home in your contacts and on a paper card.
Backups that save the day
A dead phone is just a brick, so plan for that too. Pack a power bank and a short cable, and charge it every night. If your phone drains faster than it used to, our article on why phone batteries wear down has practical fixes.
- Keep a cloud copy of your passport, visa, insurance policy and booking confirmations, plus a printed set in your bag.
- Carry a backup card in a separate place from your main wallet.
- Hide a small amount of cash in a second spot, such as a zipped pocket in your luggage.
- Write your emergency contacts on a paper card. It's old-fashioned, but it works when everything else is offline.
Start tonight with three steps
If you only do one thing tonight, turn on Emergency SOS and send your itinerary to one person. Then enroll in your government's traveler program and save the embassy number somewhere you can reach it without signal.
Finally, check that your travel insurance covers solo trips and the activities you have planned. A licensed insurance agent can confirm the details for your policy.
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Quick answers
Is solo travel safe for women?
For most women, solo trips are uneventful, especially when they plan ahead, choose well-reviewed lodging and keep in touch with someone at home. Risk varies by destination, so check current advisories before you book. Good habits matter more than any single destination label.
What should I do first when I arrive alone in a new city?
Confirm your phone works with data, open offline maps and send your location to a trusted contact. Then take your first ride from an official stand or a pre-booked car, and check the driver against your booking. Doing these steps in the first hour sets you up for the rest of the trip.
Should I enroll in the State Department program before a trip abroad?
If you're a U.S. citizen, enrolling in the Smart Traveler Enrollment Program is free and takes only a few minutes. It sends safety alerts for your destinations and lets the nearest embassy contact you in an emergency. Travelers from other countries should check whether their own government offers a similar service.
What is the most useful phone setting for a solo traveler?
Emergency SOS is the setting most worth turning on, because it can call for help and send your location to your contacts. Pair it with live location sharing for one trusted person and an offline map of your area. Test the setup once before you leave home.